Kinetic vs Potential Energy

There are a host of things that separates the end results of success from failure. The one component we have control over is our drive. Drive is the time, love, care, precision, and the  "ump" we give to a particular task. This kinetic energy is what gives those in that last leg of the race that extra push to winning! 

Without drive we are left with what one can call potential energy. Although, it sounds good. It is an illusion or a path filled with good intentions. However, at the end of this foggy mist or paved road is the gift of failure. Unless tested, failure will sneak up on you like a thief in the night; not to sound cliched. This failure can be attributed to procrastination. 

At the end of the day success should be the end result of all ventures; and it can only be achieved through trial and error. Follow your kinetic energy and don't fall trap to your potential.     

Don't settle

Ladies, ladies, ladies why do we date men that are not on our level? Is it because we out number the men, have low self-esteem, or just have a need to say we have a man? Regardless, you have it going on and you deserve a man of your equal. You have to determine what you equal is but do not sell yourself short. If you want a well educated man, Do not settle for the man that only has a high school diploma. If you want a man that is emotionally available, do not settle for the other woman's man. Ladies, you are awesome and you deserve the best. Have patients and let God work on that perfect equal, the one that will bring balance to your life. He will come ladies, do not settle for less!

Have You Had A Great Day Lately?

We all have those days where we just feel out of it. Like we have come to our wits end. Like if one more person ask you another thing you will go off edge. Stop! Stop! Stop! Come off that ledge! There are ways to fight this feeling.

Let's first start by identifying the problem. Are you tired? Are you hungry? Did you have a hectic morning? Some of the simplest problems may lead to a majority of your aggravation. These internal issues can be solve with a simple answer: Take a nap; eat something; let it go.

However, on the other hand if it is an external problem it may be a little bit more complicated to solve. Bills piling up? Problems in the home or at the office? Going through a drought in the arena of love? Not as simple as the solution above. However, here's a method to make you feel better today. If you can solve the inter-personal relationship with the co-worker or the significant other do it. Compromise. Make the sacrifice. Announce yourself as the winner, the conquer.

With everything else take care of it if you can and if not put it on the back burner. Tomorrow is not promise to you so enjoy every moment!      

Don't Be Afraid!

Is it enough for others to believe in you if you do not believe in yourself? You have to believe that you are awesome. Awesomeness starts from within. Do not be afraid to look in the mirror and say how awesome you are and believe it. Do not be afraid to be confident. Do not be afraid of change. Do not be afraid of a challenge. Remember that as you are accepting these things, you are becoming more awesome.

People! People! People!

Listen up... failure is not an option! We have to boast about our intelligence. We have to shout out with pride that we are that special something that makes a difference. We have to make our presence known! People should think... without (your name goes here) life cannot go on.

Be the go to person. Understand this, if you are not needed you will be the first to go. Show the people what you are working with. You are awesome; you are a force to be reckon with. Like the song says, you are everything and everything is you. Make it your job to make them believe it!

The Struggle

We all heard negative things about struggling through life; and of course no one wants to struggle. As parents, children, and grandchildren the generation before should lessen the battle for the generation after. However, as with everything there is something to say about "the struggle".

*The struggle builds character.
*The struggle creates a sense or urgency.
*The struggle teaches appreciation.
*The struggle provides life experience.
*The stubble highlights accomplishments.
*The struggle puts reality into focus.
*The struggle creates character.
*The struggle builds self-esteem.

Everyone in life is battle-tested, but true warriors will stand the test of time.

The Pre-requisites of Love

It has once been said that in order for you to love someone else you would have to love yourself first. But if you were to meet yourself would you like you? If the answer is no, admit it to yourself and figure out why? Learn who you are by dating yourself, loving yourself, finally make a commitment to yourself. Accomplish all of this first before making room for someone else.