It time to get empowered! Starting today make a pledge to yourself that you will be successful. Education is a lifetime commitment. The importance of learning should be installed in the minds of children as early as their first cognitive decision. This is evident through commercials that advertise teaching your child how to read at a early age.
This commitment must continue throughout your adulthood. Do not be afraid to go back to school to change your career. According to an article located on the CBS website, Just 45 Percent of U.S. Workers are Satisfied with Their Jobs (click here to view article). This is sad. We spend the majority of our lives at our jobs and at least we need to be satisfied.
If you are not happy in your position; it is time to make a change. If you are calling the place you work at a job and not a career; it is time to make a change. If you feel you have more to offer to society and your potential is not being utilized; it is time to make a change. If you are a lawyer and you feel you would be great as a teacher; go for it! Who said you cannot make a late career change.
A lot of times we get trapped or forced into these career fields because at the time we were in need of a job; we made the wrong decision in college; or we never received the education necessary to have the career we always dreamed of. Whatever the reason, if the time has come to make that change, then lets breakthrough the status quo!
Saturday, December 11, 2010
Wednesday, December 8, 2010
Don't Box Me In!
Republican Party, Democratic Party, and Independents listen up! Stop trying to box us in. Stop trying to force feed us this non-sense about my social beliefs, my religion, and my love for this country! Just because I believe that health care should be mandated does not mean I am a socialist. Just because I believe in God does not make me a religious zealot or fanatic. Just because I want change for our country does not mean I do not love my country.
We are forced into these little statically categories in order to predict our votes. Since patterns rarely change, the statical data is turn into reality. This is why Republicans candidates don't run for office in Detroit or even campaign in the city. There is a belief that Detroiters are not educated voters, and our track record is proving this statement true. People it's time to wake up. Our representatives are not representing us.
For example, look at the City of Detroit. The Democratic Party has been running Detroit for over 20 years. What do we have to show for it? Corruption is running ramped; the school system is worthless; and economic growth is a joke that you tell in a bar. However; if a person ran under another party the chance of them winning Mayor in the city of Detroit is slim to none. But we voted in several scrupulous people without blinking an eye.
Lets get educated! Lets change the world! Lets not let our Four Fathers down! Vote according to what is more beneficial to the city, state, and/or country. Lets not replace a good political agenda with a popularity contest.
We are forced into these little statically categories in order to predict our votes. Since patterns rarely change, the statical data is turn into reality. This is why Republicans candidates don't run for office in Detroit or even campaign in the city. There is a belief that Detroiters are not educated voters, and our track record is proving this statement true. People it's time to wake up. Our representatives are not representing us.
For example, look at the City of Detroit. The Democratic Party has been running Detroit for over 20 years. What do we have to show for it? Corruption is running ramped; the school system is worthless; and economic growth is a joke that you tell in a bar. However; if a person ran under another party the chance of them winning Mayor in the city of Detroit is slim to none. But we voted in several scrupulous people without blinking an eye.
Lets get educated! Lets change the world! Lets not let our Four Fathers down! Vote according to what is more beneficial to the city, state, and/or country. Lets not replace a good political agenda with a popularity contest.
Monday, December 6, 2010
Momma's Boy or Insecure Woman...
So you find yourself in a battle. It is the challenge of your life and its titled in lights MOM vs. WIFE and all odds are in her favor. To add to this misery you realized that you have married a man that some would consider a “mama’s boy”; and you want him to change? Good luck with that!
Now what is a girl to do? Well first, take a deep breath because it is time to face reality. This relationship with his mother has been established for years, it will be almost impossible to correct directly. His mother is the woman that has been there and has proven herself countless times. Now little "ole you" has come in an disrupt the "BEE's HIVE". So you need to take a different approach.
Understand this, your husband feels there’s no woman above his mother; and she does not respect you. To change his way of thinking, you must change the way she thinks of you. So first, you have to establish a “relationship” with your mother-in-law. Invite her to do lunch. Go on a shopping spree. Take her to get her nails done. Or simply, ask her what are her interests and plan accordingly.
Your goal is to make her see that you are wonderful. Yes! It’s ridiculous! I know it will not be easy! Take one for your marriage or the future of your relationship! This new found “friendship” will eliminate a lot of conflicts between you and your mother-in-law (future). Ultimately, bringing you closer to your husband; and at the end of the day, he may see you from a different perspective.
The Harsh Reality: This man did not turn into a momma’s boy overnight. You knew the type of man you married. Hold yourself accountable. Take time to find your value and stop competing with his mom.
Now what is a girl to do? Well first, take a deep breath because it is time to face reality. This relationship with his mother has been established for years, it will be almost impossible to correct directly. His mother is the woman that has been there and has proven herself countless times. Now little "ole you" has come in an disrupt the "BEE's HIVE". So you need to take a different approach.
Understand this, your husband feels there’s no woman above his mother; and she does not respect you. To change his way of thinking, you must change the way she thinks of you. So first, you have to establish a “relationship” with your mother-in-law. Invite her to do lunch. Go on a shopping spree. Take her to get her nails done. Or simply, ask her what are her interests and plan accordingly.
Your goal is to make her see that you are wonderful. Yes! It’s ridiculous! I know it will not be easy! Take one for your marriage or the future of your relationship! This new found “friendship” will eliminate a lot of conflicts between you and your mother-in-law (future). Ultimately, bringing you closer to your husband; and at the end of the day, he may see you from a different perspective.
The Harsh Reality: This man did not turn into a momma’s boy overnight. You knew the type of man you married. Hold yourself accountable. Take time to find your value and stop competing with his mom.
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